Do it Right before it's too late

i'm glad to hold on this morning ... holding on to the pain even though i cant stand straight! i'm glad i've survived week 6!!! even as i was complating n hesitating n questioning y did i agree to attend the KidsRead training, i attended.

the trainer is very experience and expressive. i like her. think i'm starting to like reading n quite determine to make time for this.

out of the many advantages for reading, 1 of it is to teach children abt sad and difficult times, such as death. this's something everyone of us has to go thru ... the trainer mentioned that even a person had passed away, the person will always be remembered by others. at this stage, it's the memory that matters!

this set me thinking ... thinking abt my dad n i cant agree more. i've lose count how many times i've tear after his cremation, yet i didnt shed a drop of tear during his cremation. i guess it's the memory that touch my heart. 

i know some ppl like to address their parents as "uncle" or "auntie". this may sound very cool but i find it very disrespectful. we can have many uncles n aunties in our life but everyone has only 1 father and 1 mother. most imptly, "daddy" and "mummy" are 2 words that one will never have any chance to use again once the person has passed away.

i dun blame those who dun understand or think deep enough cos some of these are learnt thru experience and some of these experience is very painful.

count your blessings!